Step 12 in a workshop called "Catch the buzz with the steps" in New York, NY

Alright. I got another question. Question is, how many meetings should a newcomer go to? I let me put it this way. I I, do some work with some sober living homes out in my area about an hour from where I live and, they require a lot of meetings.

If you're, if you're going to, if you're working full time, they require a minimum of 14 meetings a week. Alright? The message is this, nothing nothing gets in the way of a constant connection and commitment to Alcoholics Anonymous. Working full time? Terrific.

Then you'll only do 14 meetings this week. Get what I'm saying? So those guys are at the 6:15 AM meeting, and they go to the 6:15 to 17 AM meeting at the 502 club before they go to work. After work, very easy to hit at least one of the many, many meetings that are being conducted in that immediate area. Weekends, doubling up shouldn't be a problem.

So 2 a day is nothing. The record is held by John c, 54 meetings in 1 week. So if you're a newcomer, I would suggest a meeting a day. Suddenly? Doesn't sound like much.

Does it? Go to a meeting a day. Why not? I think in the beginning I mean, what we're doing in the beginning is different than any other time. What we're doing in the beginning is that building a foundation upon which we will stand free men and women, free of the beast, free of the enslavement of alcoholism and drug addiction.

Right? We're building that foundation. I would suggest that it requires constant involvement. Right? I mean, I don't wanna build an okay foundation.

I wanna know that my foundation kicks ass. That's what I wanna know. So I'm gonna be involved on a daily basis. I'm calling my sponsor every day doing what he asks. I'm going to a meeting a day.

I went to him. They said, if they had said to me, Earl, I want you to go to a meeting a day for your first 5 years. We'll talk again then. I would have said, okay. You, clearly, you're still drinking because I ain't doing that.

The fact of the matter is I went to way more meetings than what a meeting a day for my first 5 years. Way more. Because I was doubling up on the weekends because I was hanging with my new friends, these sober guys. I was chasing her. She was sober.

I needed to look very, very sober. All the wrong reasons. I'm building a very solid foundation. Again, what gets you there? People say, well, you know, I don't know if that's a good way to get to AA.

Please. I don't care how you get here. Well, I'm here because the judge made me come. Perfect. I got here because I thought it was a good idea.

Perfect. I'm here so my wife won't leave me. Perfect. How do you get here? How do you get here?

What causes you to stay? Perfect. Right? This ain't about the mindset. You're not gonna think your way into right action.

You're gonna act act your way into right thinking. That's what you're gonna do. Just the it's about footwork, man. The free feet bring the head. Let's face it.

When you get here, if you're anything like me, you may have kicked. You may have kicked. You may not have kicked. But you let's say, the worst case scenario, you come here and you kick, go into meetings. Now you've kicked.

You've dealt with the the lesser aspect of your disease. You're not sitting in AA meetings with a head full of alcoholism. Right? Beast is whispering in your ear. Oh, he's look beast beast's the end going, what?

It's he's looking right at you. Smile at him. Yeah. Okay. Good.

It's just it's going on in here. Fine. You brought him here. The ones that I love are the meetings where you go into and the guy raises his hand and says, Earl, the beast is talking to me right now. I mean, it's so loud.

I'm surprised you guys can't hear it. Right? It's absolutely unbelievable because you know the beast has sworn you to secrecy. And here you are talking out in plain view of other recovering alcoholics. Beast is like, oh, great.

That was smooth. Right? I mean, if you can I thought it was in between us? If you're gonna do this and we're you know what? We're not talking.

Excellent. Excellent. Bring it on out in the room. I love the guy who shares his hand and says, Bill, alcoholic. Game here today to tell y'all to fuck off.

Hate you. Hate alcoholics or not. Don't hate you as a group. I hate each and every one of you individually. Hate AA.

Hate your pedestrian little book. Hate it all. Came here to let you know that's where I'm at. Thanks for letting me share. Half the room goes, alright, dope.

Way to go, man. Keep coming back, you sorry son of a bitch. I love that guy because you know what? That guy felt like that at home. And he got up off his ass, got in his car and went to a meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous.

And they said, would anybody like to share? He simply responded and told them the truth. He's not doing so bad, is he? Yes. He has a bad attitude.

How shocking that one of us would have a bad attitude. And he's telling the truth. You go back 6 months later. Right? Guess who's making the coffee there?

And doubling is the gsr. He is. I remember going out to that Tuesday night workshop that I did for 5 years straight. I'm on sabbatical now. And they brought in a guy who was in the house, Big Frank.

Big Frank is an Hispanic gentleman. Big Frank been gang banging his whole life. Big Frank's been in the system since he was a kid. Alright? Big Frank got ink.

Big first thing you mean on Big Frank is his neck. Yeah? I walk up and say, Frank, how are you doing? You go, kimmy, are you? Let's get something straight.

I am here so that I don't do time. This is why I'm here, mister little white man. And I am going to you say go left, I will go left. I will do everything that you suggest me to do. I will be in total compliance with the program here at this Silver Lewin facility.

I will do everything I got. But the minute I got this beef off my back, the minute my case is resolved, I'm getting high. Are we clear? I said, big Frank, we are clear. Now, since you're gonna be here for a year, what you say you and I talk a little bit between now and then?

Whatever floats your boat, little white man, off Frank goes. Right? Now Frank was in the back of the meeting, and every day I have Tuesday, I come in and say, Frank, how are you doing? Apparently, that's just Frank's way of saying hello. You know?

Frank and I talked about it a little bit every Tuesday night for a year. I am Frank's sponsor now. Frank just celebrated 4 years of sobriety. Not because I'm his sponsor, but because Frank was willing to talk about it. Frank was willing to take the actions that were requested of him during the course of that year.

And as a result, the change occurred, and Frank is a free man. Frank and I hugged each other and cried when Frank came to me and said, my probation officer has lifted my probation. I'm no longer required to be anywhere or answer to anyone. To which I replied, except me and god. Right, Frank?

And he said, well, god. And he's a beautiful human being. And I love Frank. And I look at him and Frank says and frank frank, this here's you walk into a meeting now and when you see Frank, this is what Frank is doing. Okay, Here's what you do, man.

I want you to read the doctor's opinion. Alright? And I want you to read the first 8 pages of Bill's story, then you call me right away. Okay? And I'm not talking about tomorrow.

Alright? I'm talking about tonight. Alright? Alright. And I'm like, okay.

Right? I got a problem with God. I think not. Big Frank carrying the message, man. He's fierce.

Frank's like he's like a modern day samurai to me, man. The guy is huge. He's an amazing human being. Doctor told Frank, Frank, you gotta lose some big Frank, you gotta lose some weight. Frank's heart's about to stop.

His vision getting blurred. I mean, bad stuff happening. Right? Frank said, okay. Frank lost a £100.

He's still big Frank, but he's a much smaller version. So how'd you do that? He said, one day at a time, man. Thank you, Frank. And how cool is this guy.

Right? I also sponsor satan. I do. His name is Louis Offor. Lucifer, that's his real name.

Louis Offor. He's got a shaved head and 2 horns of red hair, shellacked up into horns. He's got a little beard that swirls down into a point and kinda tips up at the end. Right? Down about here.

He's got a devil's tail tattooed up his back. He's got flames tattooed on his legs like he's standing in the fires of hell. And I spoke in a meeting one night and this dude comes walking up and says, bro, you gotta sponsor me. Now, immediately, I become greatly concerned about what it is I'm throwing out there because clearly, Satan sees that I am his guy. Right?

And I have sponsored him. Louis just celebrated 10 years of sobriety. Louis is an amazing human being, sponsors a lot of guys, helps a lot of people. When when those little speed freaks on on Hollywood Boulevard out in Hollywood. Right?

I mean, these guys, 14, 15, 16, 17 years old, and they come screaming into the midnight madness meetings in Hollywood, and I mean just in time. If you can imagine 15 years old and getting here just in time, come tweaking in off that street in those midnight madness meetings, man, they look around and go, holy shit. The devil got sober. They say Louie's standing over there with the horns and the whole thing. Right?

Louie goes walking over and puts his arm around him and says, alright, little bro. You don't ever have to get loaded again one day at a time if you don't want it. And I just wanna cry when I see that. And they look at him and they go, I am so into this. Right?

Now I could walk up to them and say, little brother, my name is Earl. I got 22 years clean and sober, and I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna show you how to catch this buzz that is more fierce than anything you have ever known in your life. And they'll look at me and go, shit. 22 years right. Either you didn't use like me or there's you're lying.

There's a lost weekend in there somewhere. They'll believe Louie. They don't believe me. They'll believe him. They don't know that when they they and they pass on me and sit down with Louie, they just move to another seat at the same table.

And who cares? They say, well, I gotta pass. I'm gonna go with Lou. I say, okay. I just smile.

I go, all right. That's a big shift in game plan, bro. Right? Right? And we all end up brothers and sisters doing the same deal, man.

The common problem and the common solution drawn us closer and closer together. Step 12, having had a spiritual awakening. As the result of doing these steps. That was the whole point. Having been restored to sanity, soundness of mind, relieved to the obsession to drink and use, walking the earth a free man.

What do I do? Because I've been coming to Alcoholics Anonymous and going to these meetings and talking to this sponsor, going to these book stations and I've been take take take take take take from you which is precisely what I should have been doing. It's taken from you. Right? When Madonna looked at me and said, Earl, Earl, it's really not necessary that you share because you don't have anything we want.

That was a fair and reasonable statement. Sit down, shut up, and listen was really applicable to me. And when they said to me to do that, it was really the kinder, gentler thing to say. If they had said, well, Earl, what do you think? Earl, if my sponsor had called me and said, Earl, would you like to go to a meeting?

Would you like to go? Or Earl, we're gonna we're all gonna go to a meeting over here. Would you like to join us? This never ever happened. I would come home from work, and I'd hit the answering machine, and it would be Donald, Donald Madden.

We're meeting at 2nd in Santa Monica at 8 o'clock. The meeting starts at 8:30. You be there by 8 click. Oh, thanks for the invitation. I would go be there by 8.

The meeting's at 8:30. Why am I here at 8? Because there's people here that are newer than you, if you can believe that. There's people here that know actually know even less than you. Maybe you could help them out.

Get out of your self centered little brain and help them out. Glad I asked, Donald. Thanks. Go be live for somebody else. Right?

Oh, okay. And go and do. He was he'd say, go pick up Ed. He's on the corner of 2nd in Santa Monica, 6th in Santa Monica. Pick him up and bring him to Ohio Street.

Fine. I just go and I do it. Now, what happened was I got introduced to contrary action. Nobody asked me what I thought, what my best thinking was on this. We all knew it sucked.

We're gonna go with his best thinking. That's the great thing about a sponsor. Use the best thinking of another. That's the one of the great surrenders around here to be willing to go with the best thinking of another. One who has what it is I seek.

Comfortable sobriety. Someone who's comfortable sober. Somebody who's free. Somebody who's been relieved of the obsession of drinking news. That's what I'm after.

The rest of you hear that? Oh, good. That's good. That's good. But I'm getting really, really tired, man, because I'm starting the bells are starting.

I if it's just me, I can roll with it. Don't I mean, I got lots of experience. Okay. Right. We ask people to turn their cell phones up.

Thank you. You saw me go away right there. Didn't you didn't you just see it happen? I remember being in an AA meeting in the back of Ohio Street on the Saturday night, and I couldn't go another step. It was about 2 years sober.

I was done. Saturday night, couldn't do it. Done. It's too hard. It's too damn hard.

And I just was caving in. You know, I was just caving in. I couldn't move and Donald saw me. The main speaker's up talking. And he gets up and he walks up to the podium and he taps the speaker on the shoulder, in the middle of his talk.

The guy steps aside and he gets up at the podium and he goes, oh. And I'm in the back of the oh, fuck. And he we're having a meeting. Right. Okay.

Now everybody else in the meeting is going, who the hell is Earl? Right? Because because I don't talk to anybody but Donald. I don't. I never took a chip.

I didn't take a cake till I was 3 years sober. Didn't say a word and a a 8 till I was 2a half. I'm a slow burn, man. You're a slow burn. I'm a slow burn, but I'm still here.

Because every time it came down to the wire, every time a line got drawn in the sand, I stepped over it. Somebody said to me, how can you get through the fear of letting go? How do you get over the fear of letting go? To be able to let go. And I said, you don't.

You let go in the face of it. We don't wait till we're not afraid to do stuff around here. We We do it in the face of that fear. We take action in the face of the fear. That's how the fear gets relieved.

You get what I'm saying? It's the action. You don't have to like it. You don't have to think it's a good idea, Earl. You just have to do it.

So I do it. I do it all. I have the awakening. I'm free to the beast. The beast leaves.

I'm done. Right? I'm able to, on a daily basis, engage in the behavior that makes it possible for me to walk the earth free of the obsession of drinking news. I have addressed the obsession of the mind and the allergy of the body. Life's just getting more and more and more miraculous.

I've been coming to AA all this time to take and I've been given precisely what I need. What do I do? I now go to meetings to give. I now take the place of the ones who've gone before me. I now go to the meeting, and I am not there to take from the meeting, but I am there to be of service to that meeting.

I'm there to be an example of what can happen. I stand there just buzzing away. And And the newcomers come in and go, what's that vibe? Right? Because Fred Ellis is gone.

I can't tell him. Go stand behind Fred Ellis after the meeting at Thursday Night Brentwood Beginners Workshop and check that buzz out because Fred's gone. But Fred gave that buzz to a lot of men. You can go to that meeting now and there's other guys. There's other guys I can point to.

Go listen to him. Go listen to him. When we go to a meeting and a certain guy is speaking, I say to my boys, phaser shields down, boys. This one's safe. Just let it happen.

Soak this man in because he's gonna throw down. He's gonna tell you the real deal. He's gonna talk about trusting God, cleaning house, and helping others. Me, God, and you. Right?

I was in Texas earlier this year. Right? And I go walk in a room and Searcy's sitting there. Searcy's 92 years old. Been married to the same woman for 68 years.

Sober 57 years. Now AA is only what? 66? Is that right? 67?

Last July, like June June 10th. I got a few things left in here. Cersei says, oh, what are you doing here? I'm like, Jesus. Cersei knows my name.

Hi, Cersei. I have to tell him in tech. They should give Cersei a ring so we got something to kiss when we see him. Alright? Because Cersei used to travel Cersei and his wife and Bill w and his wife used to travel together.

They were traveling buddies, right, back in the beginning days. Right? And and I had flash back 17 years. I'm 5 years sober. I'm 5 years sober.

I've gone nothing but AA meetings. People are saying, let's go to this conference. Let's do this this this this. No no no no no, man. I gotta go to a meeting.

I was so afraid of changing anything that I was gonna get loaded. I just went to meetings. I'm going to meetings. I'm going to meetings. And I took a chance and I said there was a conference that was, like, 20 minutes south of where I was living.

And And I got my little car, man. I drove down there. I paid my thing and I went in and I snuck into the back of this meeting, which just terrified me. There was, like, 2,000 people in this room. And there was a guy named Franklin w from Olive Branch, Mississippi standing up there, sharing away.

And I'm in the back, and all of a sudden, Franklin w says, I'll sum up Alcoholics Anonymous for you in 6 words. Those 6 words being trust God, clean house, help others. And it blew the top of my head off. I had a spiritual experience standing right there. That's it all fits, doesn't it?

All the little things we've been talking about all day. Bam. There they are. Trust god, clean house, help others. Me, god, and you.

Steps, the whole 9 yards. It's there. It's right there. The action plan, what I do in meetings, how I function on a daily basis in the moment I open my ass till I go to bed at night. Trust God, clean the house, help others.

I stay in there. I'm on it. So I'm vibrating out of that deal, and I'm going about my life. And I'm thinking, I got this from this guy. I don't even know who the hell this guy is.

Trust God, clean house, help others. Franklin VW from Olive Branch, Mississippi. It's like branded in my brain. Right? And I'm going along 17 years later, I'm in Texas.

I run into Searcy. Searcy says, come here, boy. How are you doing? Good, man. I'm doing this.

Doing this. I said, what's going on, Circe? And he goes, well, I'm just having a conversation with this guy over here. I was talking to him about how, how back in the old days when I was hanging out with Bill and stuff, you know, I get goosebumps. Woah.

Hanging out with Bill. That doesn't come up in conversations a lot, guys I know. Well, I was hanging out with Bill Wilson, the cofounder of Alcoholics Anonymous, the largest spiritual movement on the planet today. I mean, it's just an amazing thing that this guy was talking about. Right?

Because, yeah, we would travel and we posed the question because, you know, there was this guy Franklin W. More goosebumps. Right? Franklin w. Oh, it's getting weird.

Right? We used to go around and we're talking about stuff and he goes, you know, he was carrying one of the original circuit speaker guys. And and and it it came out of a conversation that seriously was having with Bill and he said, you know what? I wonder what it is, what program it is that we will we will give to the generations that are yet to come. I mean, the world changes.

Things change. Right? What what is it? What is the common denominator? What is the core of the heart of this thing that we will pass to the future generations that have yet to come to Alcoholics Anonymous?

And Bill said, well, that's easy. Trust God, clean house, help others. Get the top of my head blown off again, 17 years later, talking to well, I would say 16 years later, it was before I turned 22, in Texas earlier this year by seriously. See that how do I how do you explain this concisely? You know?

How do you explain that this is about raising the dead, man? How do you explain how that happened? Well, it's simple. You know, you trust God, you clean house, you help others. Mind, body, and spirit brought together as a whole human being, therein lies the balance we seek.

Right? How an individual is absolutely completely and totally addicted, enslaved by alcohol and drugs, could rise up out of a seemingly hopeless state of mind and body. Interestingly enough, something that remains, in fact, a hopeless state of mind and body for the great majority of us. We come into these rooms and we think this and this becomes the norm for us. Sober people, people get drunk.

They come to a a they get sober and live happily ever after. That ain't the case. From right here, you could probably throw a rock and hit a 100 people for every one in here that knows they're alcoholic, would love to stop drinking, and can't because it's got them by the throat. This isn't the common experience. This is our common experience, but that's us.

That's not all alcoholics. This is a rare remarkable gift. And what I'm asked for this incredible remarkable blessing in my life is that I engage in this process to go steps 1 through 11, having had the experience, having been given the remarkable thing, having been restored to sanity, soundness of mind, having been relieved of the obsession to drink, freed from the beast, finally, after 16 years of mayhem, I'm asked to practice these principles and carry the message. I'm asked to go back to these meetings that have saved my life, to these people that have saved my life, and pick up the torch that they have set down because they have passed on, to be the one that carries the message of the original 100. To be that guy now, not to be the one who benefits from it, but but be the one who is willing to pass that on.

It's the only thing Donald Matt never asked of me. So I'll give you everything I've got, everything, when that's one thing of you. When you catch this buzz, when it lights up your life, when it goes so far past not drinking and using it's blowing your mind on a daily basis, when you catch that buzz, I want you to give freely to the next guy coming through the door as it's been freely given to you. And I promised him that I would do that. And I've honored that promise every day since.

Every day since. And he's been dead 8 years, last July 26th. And, I will honor that one day at a time until the day I die. Why? Because it works.

You can say whatever else you want about this thing, but you must say, and it works, if we work it. The 12th step is an opportunity. What it does is it proves to me that I can view life in a completely different manner. An example, how many of you were forced at some time during the course of your life to stand in lines? When you go to the market, you have to stand in a line.

When you go to the DMV, you have to stand in a line. When you go to the movies, you have to stand in a line. When you cross a bridge, you gotta wait in line, don't you? May I suggest that you don't have to, that you get to. You're gonna wait either way.

You can choose to have to wait if you wish. I choose to get to wait. I get to change the way I perceive it, that I get to be a man among men. I'm not locked in a cage. I'm not buried.

I've lived 2 decades beyond anything anybody expected. I ran into an old family friend not too long ago who said to me, you know, we're we're very proud of you. And I said, why? Because pride's got nothing to do with my life. And they said, she's a normie.

And she said, well, you know we had to let you go. We loved you, but we had to let you go. All of us, we all let you go because it was too painful to watch. And there was no way you were going to survive the course of your life. And we knew it and we accepted it and we let you go.

You were 27 years old. I'm 50. Now I know you're shocked to hear that because that looks so wonderful. Heroin is a remarkable preservative. But you get what I'm saying?

Look. It's huge, this thing. This goes so far past not drinking and using. There's a buzz here so powerful and all you gotta do is get here right here, right now. See, this is the thing right here, right now that I I I lost.

That's what alcohol and drugs took away from me. Because right here, right now, I'm I'm self centered and I'm afraid. Right here, right now, I'm comparing my insides to your outsides and I'm losing every time. Right here, right now, I can't do it. I'm too frightened.

But you put drugs and alcohol on me and I feel like I can function in the world. Ultimately, what it does is it takes right here, right now away from me. I like to think that I like alcohol, heroin, barbiturates. These are a few of my favorite things. Right?

This is why I like to go down and out. My idea of a good night's just sitting around checking my pulse. That's a good night. But if you don't have any of that, I'll take the cocaine. Right?

Can't go down, let's go up. Because it's not about down or up. It's about getting out of right here, right now. And right here, right now is all there is. There's nothing else.

This is it now. This is where I'm gonna know dignity as a man. This is where I'm gonna experience freedom. This is where I'm gonna know peace. This is where I'm gonna love you.

This is where I'm gonna feel love, something I never felt in my life before coming here. Feel it. You could tell me you love me. I didn't mean I didn't understand. I couldn't let it in.

Now I feel loved. It's an amazing, warm, nurturing feeling. It's like a blanket. It's a remarkable thing. Now.

Alcoholics Anonymous gave me back now. Right now. I lost it to the beast. Got it back here. Nothing can happen at any other time than right now.

So when I go to a meeting, with whatever attitude I have, and I sit down and some guy comes up to me and says, Earl, can I ask you a question? Or, thanks, you said this and thanks to that. I feel like I have purpose and I have value in my life, and I came here without either. What I discover in the doing of it and in the being of service and going back to take, give instead of take, is I start to find where the real buzz is. It is in working with the new people.

It is in being feeling like I'm in the game because I'm willing to face my worst fear to come here. You know? And then I'll get on another plane tomorrow. I landed here and I was thinking about, you know, I've never seen the United States. I could get a car and drive home because I don't wanna do that again.

And I'll get on the plane. I'll get on the plane and I'll fly home. Right? And I'll get home and I'll be exhausted and I'll get out money. And you wanna know something?

I'm not doing any of it because I'm a good guy. It's got nothing to do with it. I'm not doing it because I'm a fine example of Alcoholics Anonymous. You know why I'm doing it? Because I'm catching such a powerful buzz being one of you.

I don't want to give it up. I don't want to give it up. I like the buzz. I'm as big a pig sober as I was using. I was never interested in a little bitty baby buzz out there.

You never heard me say, no thanks, I've had enough. If you can say it, it's not true. He understands. Uh-uh, man. I never said, no more for me.

I'm driving. Never said that. Never. No, no, that you can have that last little bit, I'm fine over here. Shut up.

Never said that. And I'm not any different in here. Right? I'll work all twelve steps, in order. I go to regular meetings regularly.

I look my sponsor in the eye every Monday night. I do what he asks me to do. I say yes to AA requests far beyond what anybody in my personal life seems to think is reasonable. I thank them for sharing. I'm catching a huge buzz.

I was exhausted when I got here. I was exhausted. Perfect example, last night. I'm exhausted. The guy picks me up.

It takes an hour and 50 minutes to go to the hotel. I get to the hotel. I go upstairs. My hut you can touch the walls in the room. Right?

There's a single bed, a little TV. I'm very fortunate, apparently, to have my own bath. You know, they say, the lobby's fabulous. Once you're in, new it's a whole new awakening when you hit your floor. Right?

This is and he was looking at me like, oh, lord. Just hang with me. Right? And I get there and look at this room and I go, what the hell is this shoebox? I've never been in a hotel room this small for Christ's sake.

Bathroom's bigger than the room. How am I supposed to watch that TV from there? I can't I mean, literally, the single bed is half the room. Right? My nightstand is my suitcase with the with the and I'm thinking, Jesus Christ.

And then I'm exhausted. Right? And then the street noise. Apparently, you're all shooting at each other all the time because the sirens are endless. The sirens are going, and the ambulances, and the police, and it's just and they're all apparently, this is all happening on my block.

Because I mean, I got 2 hours sleep. But you know what happened to me in the middle of the night? I'm slammed there and I thought to myself, you can look at this any way you want. And I remember being in boarding school when I first started getting loaded in my dorm room. It was about that size.

I remember being in that dorm room and being miserable all the time. Has nothing changed? Earl, has nothing changed, or can you be quite comfortable here? And I thought to myself, you know, it's it's warm enough in here. I don't feel cold.

The TV? My God, it's a color TV. Right? The bathroom? Lovely.

The bed? Nobody in it but me, plenty of room. Right? Suddenly, I like my hotel room. I was gonna go down downstairs to the lobby.

I had figured it out of my head. I would go downstairs and I would simply say I'm in New York, I'd try to get a little New Yorkish about it, so I would say again, I'd say, Hi, Earl age 1616. The room sucks. Give me another room. Not can you get me another room.

Just get me another room. It doesn't have to be in this building. It could be in another hotel. Just you get it. I'm not by the time I got up this morning and went downstairs, the front desk said, how are you?

I said, Fabulous. Having fun. I'm kinda high. I've had 2 hours sleep. I'm going to go sit in front of a bunch of people and talk about strange things.

It's gonna be great. I feel okay. Right? I go to the lobby. There's a couple of people there to meet me.

I didn't know them, but I knew who they were the man and I saw them. Bunch of people in the lobby. I went, there they are. There they are. There they are.

How are you doing? Good. Haven't slept. Room like a shoebox. It's okay.

Let's go. Look forward to going back to my little room. Very little care is needed. Keep it very neat and tidy. Right?

You get that you you pick your perception of things. What's gonna work for you? Life on life's terms is life on life's terms. The 12th step gets me out of myself, has me being of service to other people, out of self, more God. Whether I believe in God, understand God, irrelevant.

It's happening. I can just out of self, more God. Out of self, more God. It's going. It's working.

I'm in the world. I'm having fun. I'm allowed to change my perception of everything as a result of this process. I'm able to look at it any way I want. It is what it is, right?

I don't have to go into denial and say, well, Earl, that's crazy. You're not in reality here. Hell, I'm not. I'm a completely reality based guy. But I can see the positive in things where before I couldn't see it, which makes my life better.

I'm having a very good time, as you can see. Right? Right now, my left leg is completely numb. I cannot feel my left leg. I've been standing here all day while you guys lounge comfortably in your little auditorium seats.

That's why I get paid the big dough to stand up here. But guess what? All you got today was me. Look what I got. Look what I got.

Sure. You. Look at Margaret. You wanna hug me? Thank you.

You're welcome. Now I brought you here, but that was great. Look at that. How cool is that? That's where I've been looking at all day.

Y'all should be up here. It's incredible. But then you wouldn't be able to see you out there, so forget it. Look at them. Powerful see, they're that's a powerful group.

Those are drug addicts and alcoholics. All of them. They're drug addicts and alcoholics. This is Maggie. Hi.

You know what they are? How nice and pleasant they are? They said, hi, Maggie. Isn't this nice? I mean, isn't it amazing?

Look at look at Norman smiling over there. He's actually asleep. He's able to do that. Right? Should be dead.

They're not. Saturday, it's raining outside. You stay home on a Saturday when it's raining outside. Right? Look at them all here.

Who are they coming to see? A total stranger babbling in it from Los Angeles. We all know those people are crazy, California people. And there they are. Look at them.

Being supportive of me, smiling at me. I love them. Aren't they nice? Thanks. Thank you.

I get you. I get Tony and Tom. I get Steve. I get all these guys. Right?

I get Norman over here. I get these guys that I had lunch with. I had lunch with a bunch of guys. We had this great time. Right?

Everybody eating, everybody together, talking about being alive and sober and free. That's what we're doing. If you're new and some of you are here I met somebody with 51 days during one of the little breaks. Right? Congratulations.

Yeah. There you are. Congratulations. You know? Turn around and walk back in the teeth of your disease.

Be involved in something like this above and beyond, going to meetings. You know? It's not required of you, but there's a buzz to be had here. The people in this room are the ones that are getting it. There was a woman who came to me.

It was great too, and I get I get you give so freely to me. The last break, I'm walking up and I'm talking to Jackie. Jackie goes, you know, the way I the way I do it is, I think that when I when I pray, I'm talking to god. And when I meditate, I'm listening to god. And I thought, I love that.

I gotta pass that on to them. That basically is how I got all the information I've passed on to you today. It's from others who walk this path with us. Everything I've got. None of this I didn't come here with any of this.

I got it here. So it's available to all of us. We just pass it around and share it. It's our truth. It's our experience.

It's our journey. So participate as best as you can. Be a part of this. Laugh with us, the healing. Have a good time.

Revel in it. Don't take yourselves too seriously, but take this very seriously. Right? It's gotta be fun, man. Make it fun.

There's only one thing in this book that they say they insist on. We absolutely insist upon enjoying life. That's the only thing in here that they insist on. And I suggest that that's precisely what we should do. So when you find yourself unavoidably in a line, you get to be in the line.

When you find yourself unavoidably in traffic, good. You get to stop for just a little bit. Right? More music, more quiet, the options available to you. When you got here, weren't you the kind of person that when you were in the apartment the TV had to be on at all times?

When you're in the car, the radio has to be on at all times? God forbid you should be left with the sound of what's inside your head. You've got to be distracted at all times. How nice now to be able to drive down the road and just be quiet. I kept saying that the place that I'm trying to get to in my life is when they say, Earl, we're going to put you in this little box, and we're gonna put you there for 24 hours.

You can take everything you need to be happy, to have a great time, to to you you can take anything you want with you into the box. Just give us the list and we'll give it to you. For me to have a blast in the box, all I need is some water. That's it. I don't need anything else.

I've been trying to get the list as short as I can possibly get it so I can be happy, joyous, and free without the need of outside components. Me from the inside out. My mind. Get to be me in there, comfortable, having a good time, digging it, catching a buzz. What do I need?

A little water would be nice for 24 hours, but that's all I need. That's a cool thing. The list used to be extremely long. It's not anymore. That's freedom for a guy like me.

Right? I'm just I'm fine, and it's a result of being with you. I hope you got something out of this. I've really enjoyed being with you, and I wish you peace. I'll see you soon.